A new survey has figured out all the MISTAKES you make when you're flirting.  For men, the worst thing you can do is act TOO AGGRESSIVE.  For women, the worst thing you can do is EMASCULATE the guy, like offering to give him money to buy a drink.  Also, don't assume everyone who flirts with you wants to date you . . . 54% of men and 41% of women flirt even if they don't plan to pursue anything.

#1.)  You're too aggressive.  Women say the biggest flirting mistake a guy can make is being too aggressive.  That's even worse than using a bad pick-up line, or making an inappropriate comment.

#2.)  You're condescending.  Men say the biggest flirting mistake a woman can make is EMASCULATING him . . . like offering to give him some money to buy a drink.

 #3.)  You think everyone who flirts with you is trying to date you.  The survey found 54% of men and 41% of women will flirt with someone even if they're not interested in pursuing anything.

#4.)  You aren't keeping up with the trends.  The majority of people say that flirting has evolved from being, quote, "coy and giggling" to having a real conversation where you make fun of each other a little bit.